About the PASA gathering & Dinner & Pub

I found it hard to mingle in a group of girls or group containing many girls.

It's hard to find the conversational common piece.
But what is worse is my deep fear of girls.

What?

Yes. Admit it. That's the only way to change.
I fear I would run out of things to say.
I fear I would be rejected.

Hey. You're trying too hard.

There are things should try hard, and things you should just relax and let it unfold.
I'm always tense, uptight, and serious. Or I try to be like that as much as I can.

That attitude might work for any productive human dynamics, but it wouldn't work very well for, say, socializing.

Make people feel relaxed. Learn to be uptight, but also learn to be relaxed. The transition between these two states must be followed naturally.

Relax but be confident. That's the way to get woman.

Es geht weiter!